I spent hours looking for the best place to buy panties. I didn't want ten dollar panties because I wanted to buy at least ten panties. To my surprise it is hard to find a good deal on a pack of them or even individually. You can find bulk panties from China on Ebay, but chances are they will look cheap and they will most likely restrict orders to Paypal payments. I ordered two lingerie pieces from an Ebay company called YaFee, and their items were less than $10 each. I got what I paid for and decided to search for a company that makes cheap items look good. I also wanted to find a site that allows me to pay with a card rather than Paypal.
Several sites, such as Pantiesforless and Alibaba, had bad reviews which left me with one final decision: Yandy. They have a 5 for $20 panty sale, which I assume lasts forever. There is a huge selection of panties and thongs to choose from and it seems they are always coming up with new items. Many of the items in size S are sold out, but there are so many choices that you are likely to find something in the end. The best thing about buying with them is that they give you a free panty with your order. When I made my order, customer service emailed me to tell me there was an error with my order because one of the panties was sold out. They informed me that I could tell them what item I wanted to replace it, or they would refund my money for that item if they didn't hear back from me in a certain amount of days. I was glad they emailed me, and as soon as I emailed them back with my replacement selection, they shipped my order. I got my panties in the mail within the next week, and they looked good. It's not like Victoria's Secret, but I was very happy that they didn't look extremely cheap like some of the items I get on Ebay.
I hope this helps you with your panty shopping!
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Update! Forever21.com sells panties 5 for $10!
Wednesday, November 16, 2011
Friday, November 4, 2011
Feminism, Webcam Modeling and Fight Club
Webcam models get a lot of crap about morality and virtue from their non-webcam peers. They also get a lot of crap from their viewers about the right way to look and please. We are treading through a mess of sewage sludge, trying to foster the slightest bit of decency in our lives. Honestly though, I don't feel worried for myself at all.
Most of us at MFC would agree that the ladies with the highest cam scores are fake and bitchy. To quote an anonymous guest on the site, "they treat a 500 token tip as a joke. They make so much money and they don't even appreciate it." For those of you who don't use MFC, 500 tokens is equivalent to $25 for the model. Most cam girls at MFC are happy to receive a 500 token tip, but it doesn't work that way when you have climbed up the ladder of fakeness. The top models want the riches and accept the fact that reality doesn't make as much money in this business. What does the viewer want to see? Well that's what they will get. You want me to use the bigger dildo that makes me sore? Fine.
One thing that puzzles me, however, is that there are so many individuals who want to see me enjoy myself in a private show. They ask me to do whatever I want. This is a bit of a contradiction to me sometimes. As much as I love masturbating, sometimes I'm not in the mood. At these times I'm satisfied with making some money to do what the viewer wants me to do. If I'm going to be used, at least I'm getting paid for it. I realize that at these times my thinking is fucked up. I should appreciate the guys who want to see me enjoy myself. I shouldn't be mad at them for not being the typical sex hungry customer. It's just that I feel like they pity me when they're paying me and they don't even have their own desires of me.
On the other hand, there's one stupid guy who recently came to my chatroom to be a disturbance and a total cliche of what you would expect from a customer. Everything he said was what a typical guy would say in a Hollywood comedy. "Where's your boyfriend, out banging other girls? I'd bang you but I don't want you to get attached. I'm a fuck and go kinda guy." I grew up in a very wholesome town, where guys never talk like this because they don't watch the crap on tv that most of America watches. Then I moved to Orange County where everyone falls for that stupid shit. You know what I'm talking about. MTV's Real World, Keeping up with the Kardashians. It all made me think back to the movie Fight Club, the one film that shuts down all the falseness of American culture. "You are not a beautiful or unique snowflake, you are the same organic decaying matter as everything else." It is a film about cynical men who are trying to find themselves in the midst of being tortured by their stagnant, boring cubicle jobs and false goals. Their answer is to start a fight club where they can finally feel like real men.
I did some research on the movie and found that not only does it speak against our consumerist culture, but it also gives feminists something to think about. Let me quote Jennifer Kesler from TheHathorLegacy.com :
"Advertising does a lot worse than keep us chasing crap we don’t need so that we’re too busy to actually achieve anything that might overturn the powermongers at the top of the food chain. It has been pandering to the weakest instincts in young men and boys for a couple of generations now. 18-25 year old white boys don’t want to see strong women? Solution: don’t put a strong woman in your movie! For heaven’s sake, don’t show them that a woman can be strong and traditionally 'feminine'."
This speaks to me because I've been dealing with that same guy who comes into my chatroom and seems to believe that women are truly weak. Somehow it turns him on to talk to a woman as if she is just a good fuck. He thinks the woman will chase after him, and he is completely wrong. When I talked to him it was very evident that he was the weak one. Why was he in my room? He wanted to pay me to show him my pussy. Clearly he is not getting any back at home, and he wants to act as if that is his own choice. Maybe he's not confident in himself, so he never goes for the women he wants. So he backs up his ego by telling himself he would rather pay for sex with no strings attached, so that a woman does not grow attached to him. He creates his story to make it seem that I am the weak one for making the profit. The truth is we all need sex, and we all need intimacy.
I am happy to give company to people who are missing it from their lives for whatever reason. Throw away all the fake crap surrounding it, and essentially it's about loneliness and a natural need for release. I'm not going to do everything a guy wants me to do but if what I have to offer is pleasing to someone, there is nothing wrong with giving that to them.
Most of us at MFC would agree that the ladies with the highest cam scores are fake and bitchy. To quote an anonymous guest on the site, "they treat a 500 token tip as a joke. They make so much money and they don't even appreciate it." For those of you who don't use MFC, 500 tokens is equivalent to $25 for the model. Most cam girls at MFC are happy to receive a 500 token tip, but it doesn't work that way when you have climbed up the ladder of fakeness. The top models want the riches and accept the fact that reality doesn't make as much money in this business. What does the viewer want to see? Well that's what they will get. You want me to use the bigger dildo that makes me sore? Fine.
One thing that puzzles me, however, is that there are so many individuals who want to see me enjoy myself in a private show. They ask me to do whatever I want. This is a bit of a contradiction to me sometimes. As much as I love masturbating, sometimes I'm not in the mood. At these times I'm satisfied with making some money to do what the viewer wants me to do. If I'm going to be used, at least I'm getting paid for it. I realize that at these times my thinking is fucked up. I should appreciate the guys who want to see me enjoy myself. I shouldn't be mad at them for not being the typical sex hungry customer. It's just that I feel like they pity me when they're paying me and they don't even have their own desires of me.
On the other hand, there's one stupid guy who recently came to my chatroom to be a disturbance and a total cliche of what you would expect from a customer. Everything he said was what a typical guy would say in a Hollywood comedy. "Where's your boyfriend, out banging other girls? I'd bang you but I don't want you to get attached. I'm a fuck and go kinda guy." I grew up in a very wholesome town, where guys never talk like this because they don't watch the crap on tv that most of America watches. Then I moved to Orange County where everyone falls for that stupid shit. You know what I'm talking about. MTV's Real World, Keeping up with the Kardashians. It all made me think back to the movie Fight Club, the one film that shuts down all the falseness of American culture. "You are not a beautiful or unique snowflake, you are the same organic decaying matter as everything else." It is a film about cynical men who are trying to find themselves in the midst of being tortured by their stagnant, boring cubicle jobs and false goals. Their answer is to start a fight club where they can finally feel like real men.
I did some research on the movie and found that not only does it speak against our consumerist culture, but it also gives feminists something to think about. Let me quote Jennifer Kesler from TheHathorLegacy.com :
"Advertising does a lot worse than keep us chasing crap we don’t need so that we’re too busy to actually achieve anything that might overturn the powermongers at the top of the food chain. It has been pandering to the weakest instincts in young men and boys for a couple of generations now. 18-25 year old white boys don’t want to see strong women? Solution: don’t put a strong woman in your movie! For heaven’s sake, don’t show them that a woman can be strong and traditionally 'feminine'."
This speaks to me because I've been dealing with that same guy who comes into my chatroom and seems to believe that women are truly weak. Somehow it turns him on to talk to a woman as if she is just a good fuck. He thinks the woman will chase after him, and he is completely wrong. When I talked to him it was very evident that he was the weak one. Why was he in my room? He wanted to pay me to show him my pussy. Clearly he is not getting any back at home, and he wants to act as if that is his own choice. Maybe he's not confident in himself, so he never goes for the women he wants. So he backs up his ego by telling himself he would rather pay for sex with no strings attached, so that a woman does not grow attached to him. He creates his story to make it seem that I am the weak one for making the profit. The truth is we all need sex, and we all need intimacy.
I am happy to give company to people who are missing it from their lives for whatever reason. Throw away all the fake crap surrounding it, and essentially it's about loneliness and a natural need for release. I'm not going to do everything a guy wants me to do but if what I have to offer is pleasing to someone, there is nothing wrong with giving that to them.
Wednesday, November 2, 2011
webcam role play
Has your partner ever asked you to do some role play? Are you completely afraid of trying it out? It may seem difficult if you have never tried it, but it is actually quite simple and fun once you open your mind to it. When someone asked me to do role play for the first time, I thought I would need costumes and some story or plot to remember. While costumes are a plus, they are not necessary if you have somewhat of an imagination. Role play serves to spice up your sex life, it's doesn't have to be a theatrical performance. All you need to do is come to an agreement with your partner about what roles you want to carry out, and create some minor details about where you are and what you are doing. For instance, I was once asked to be the best friend's wife. We decided that he was coming by my house to return a movie, and my husband was at work. From there, we let our imaginations run wild. We filled in the blanks for each other whenever we had some ideas. "Oh what a surprise. I didn't expect you to answer the door naked!" he said. You don't have to play out every little detail. Once you get into the scene, you will be so horny your senses will take over.
The great thing about role play is that it can be done on webcam. If you are in a long distance relationship, your sex life might suffer without a little creativity. Try on some roles like teacher-student, cop-criminal, doctor-patient, and if you are on the kinky side, you can try friend-friend's father/mother, brother-sister, etc.
Here are some more ideas to mix and match:
Poolboy - This role can be very innocent while the other takes on a very sex-hungry and desperate role. Imagine being a lonely housewife who's husband is always out on business trips. I love this role because it really gets me in a needy and eager mood that seems to turn on my partner to the extreme.
Babysitter- This is for the guys who are children at heart - and let's be honest, most of you are. Take on a curious attitude, innocently brushing your hands against your babysitter's thighs and butt. Let the chemistry take over from there.
Vampire - We've seen enough vampire movies to play this one out without much difficulty, right? Put on some extra eyeliner and your darkest lipstick and you are ready to go!
Jack and Rose - Everyone knows the story of Jack and Rose in Titanic. It is the ultimate love story. A poor man fighting for the love of an upper class woman as they share their one moment of escape from the rest of the world.
TV show characters - If there's a show both of you really like to watch, why not use the characters for ideas? The nature of the relationship is already defined for you so you both get the same idea of the scene. For instance my boyfriend really likes the show Naruto, so he played Naruto and I played Sakura.
Sex can happen anywhere in any circumstance! Think of all the possibilities and make them happen with your mate.
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